Today I have nominated by blogger Chocoviv. She is a lifestyle blogger, a mommy blogger who loves to share what she loves!. She is very active on her blog, volatile and supportive blogger. Please have time to visit her meaningful and interesting blog Chocoviv and have a happy reading.
Here are some question asked by
1) Who is the most famous that you have met so far?
Ans: I haven’t get chance so far to meet someone famous but I’m looking forward definitely.
2) Why did you start blogging?
Ans: For exposure, writing, sharing, learning and career development.
3) How did you start using social media platforms?
Ans: When i heard from my friend circle.
4) What social media platforms are you on? Leave a link!
Ans: I’m active on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. Here is the link of those.
Negativity doesn’t affect our attitude but also our energy level. The human brain has an in-built tendency to focus more on negative things than on positive things. To go with negativity will not help us to go far while it’s important to say “no” to negativity and lean the scales towards a positive attitude in order to be at our best consistently and be true to who we are.
Here are 7 ways to Say No to Negativity. By saying NO to negativity, we can reap the benefits of improved attitude, better relationships, and more happiness.
#1Set reasonable goals: Goals and purpose makes our life smoother and more satisfying and gives the best feeling at the end of the day. Therefore our move should be smart and wise towards setting goals. Set realistic goals which we would actually like to achieve. Not that kind of goals which seem huge, intimidating and difficult to attain.
The satisfaction we get in reaching these smaller goals at the end will motivate us to reach the next one. However, be clear and aligned with a purpose and begin to create reasonable goals that will fuel life with purpose without negativity.
#2Be mindful to detox from bad newsand people: “Mindfulness is the key to win positivity”. It brings the quality of being conscious or aware of something to experiences. We consciously start paying attention to what we are consuming, why, and how it makes us feel.
For instance: If we find that listening to the news and meeting with people spike our stress levels, or disrupts our sleep then tune into something more positive at these vulnerable times. This is being possible because of our mindful behavior.
#3Turn problems into challenges: Who doesn’t have problems? I think problems exist in everyone’s life and it may lead to negativity in the life of many but if we take problems as challenges then problems will not be problems. By doing so we can say bye-bye to negativity.
#4Communicate explicitlyabout vision and values and strictly stand forthem: In order to deal with any negativity, we need to explicit about what we will or will not tolerate. Choose which type of conversation we want to have. It will make the conversation tolerable and negative free as well as make us able to have our inner positive potential. So it is up to us, we have to think that what to choose and what to discard.
#5Shift focus towards the light and feed mind with positivity: Focusing on darkness will never help us to eliminate darkness and find the difference between light and darkness. In order to avoid negativity, immerse ourselves in positivity, whether that’s through watching or listening to things that are uplifting, or reading self-development books. This way, we can avoid negativity and can strengthen our minds to focus more on positivity rather than negativity.
#6Be aware of people’s patterns and tendencies: Sometimes we cannot avoid negative people especially if they’re close family members, relatives, or even a life partner. Here we need to have conscious conversations and knowing patterns and tendencies what triggers them to become negative. It makes us able to not talk more with them and can direct the conversation to other topics.
#7Value self-acceptance: Celebrating one’s trumpet is encouraged but we should not forget to appreciate the fact that we are valuable. Remind time to time that we are an achiever and we are enough. It is a very encouraging act for ourselves and to accept ourselves as we are.
Stop comparing ourselves to others and start knowing our strengths and being happy with our flaws. Sooner and later this kind of nature will help to strengthen our skills and habits and increase the sense of freedom, self-worth, self-reliance, and self-esteem. By being our own motivation can help to keep away negativity.
So these are 7 ways to strengthen our minds to focus more on what’s positive and say “no” to negativity.If negativity prevails around us then we should be responsible for this. We are individually responsible for what we allow into our minds.
I hope you find this post helpful and love reading it.
Today I have nominated by blogger POETIC_HEART. I (crucial notes) recently came across her blog but got noticed a lot. She is volatile and pens her thoughts beautifully. Her thoughts seem transparent and real. She writes on Poetry, Motivation, Inspiration, and Quotes. Visit her blog POETIC_HEART and have a happy reading😊.
Ans-I believe it helps me to make my thoughts transparent and positive inside out.
3.What motivates you in life?
Ans-To help myself and others.
4.The happiest moment you ever had on wordpress?
Ans-When my first post got noticed after such a long wait and patience.
5.Do you talk to yourself? If so, what do you really talk to you?
Ans-Yes!! I talk to myself😛 and I believe it helps. When I feel down, I keep whispering such lines like “you are strong”, “you are enough”, “be yourself”.
6.Who is the one blogger that always bring a smile on your face?
Ans-There are many😊
7.Are you a Speaker or a Listener?
Ans-Well, I’m an ambivert, so when I have to speak, I speak and when I have to listen, I listen. I maintain the balance.
8.What are the lessons you wished you learned earlier.
Ans-Never underestimates the power of individuality/ originality and expressing empathy. I recently published a blog on “what is empathy and why it is important” Click here to know about empathy and its importance.
9.How do you cheer yourself up, if your feeling upset or sad?
Often, we don’t realize the importance of a positive attitude and face problems most of the time. We don’t notice that the right positive attitude can help us to overcome problems and make up happy and positive. Visit why Positive Attitude Matters
Do you know that absence of a positive attitude can prevail unhappiness or critical attitude over happiness and an easy-going attitude? It can make it hard to lead a life as we want.
Remember,a positive attitude could be the reason to attracts prosperity, peace, and happiness, and only one can have a positive attitude who observes their thoughts so as to identify problems and try to mend them.
Having a positive attitude requires someone to be healthy both physically and mentally. Negative thoughts can creep on someone’s mind and cause him to start becoming stressed, tired, annoying, angry, etc.
Therefore, one has to train himself to look for a positive attitude which can be done when a person starts the day or ends the day cause it refreshes the mind and can cause some to be happy.
Here are 11 ways to build a positive attitude in life:
#1 Listen to good music. Music can help us to distract from negative situations, and carry strong vibes.
#2 Don’t do anything passively. It might create boredom and in boredom, no one can be productive and positive.
#3 Be aware of negativity and ready to overcome it.
#4 Enjoy solitude. Solitude has many benefits but one of the most important benefits is that it helps toincrease productivity.
#5 Do daily exercise. It improves our mood in positive way.
#6 Take time for hobbies instead of having chaos.
#7 Celebrate yourself, probably we have made many mistakes but still be kind because we haven’t given up, you are still trying.
#8 Ignore toxic things, talk and people. They can never make us feel happy.
#9 Find a way to measure progress, and then measure it and improve it and then measure it and improve it and go on.
#10 Set reasonable goals and start working bit by bit on a daily basis.
#11 Take problems as a challenges and fight as we are going to win the game.
Understand the value of Positive attitude, hence it can lead to success and happiness. Control thoughts because our thoughts determine our feelings and actions. So whenever any negative thought comes to our mind, immediately replace it with a positive one.
Train mind by following these given 11 tips to develop a positive attitude. This way we can train our mind to think positively. Besides all are given 11 ways to build a positive mindset, reading inspirational and motivational quotes on a daily basis is also a helpful way to overcome negative thoughts and instill a sense of optimism for our ownself.
I hope you find this post helpful and love reading it.
From continuous improvement to continue growth, making mistakes and failing in life is quite normal. There is nothing wrong with that. In my opinion, without commiting mistakes, we would not be aware about our weaknesses. We wouldn’t know where we need to improve or what to focus on first.
Making mistakes is inevitable to learn something which we can’t learn to go straight. But remember, repeating and exaggerating the same mistakes are as harmful as not committing mistakes ever. Make sure we don’t repeat the mistakes because the problem starts from where.
“Mistakes in abundance can create chaos but without making mistake we have chaos already“
Things often go wrong when we attempt something for the first time. But we forget that without trying and doing anything, success will not come to our doorstep.
However, fear of embarrassment, fear of being considered less competent, and fear of being mocked make them timid enough to commit mistakes, own them, rectify them, and learn a lesson out of them but if you are someone who’s not afraid of making mistakes will know the benefits of making mistakes. Let’s see why we shouldn’t afraid of making mistakes. Here they are:
Mistakes make us more knowledgeable.
Makes us able to face and deal with danger or fear without flinching.
It assists us to discover our own style to see things.
Teach you to live life without regrets.
Helps us to grow and develop.
Remove the hesitancy, indecisiveness, and vacillation.
Gradually give chance to enhance leadership quality.
“Do mistakes in order to learn”
We shouldn’t feel embarrassed by our mistakes even learn and celebrate from the mistakes. We need to change our perspective. Don’t live in the fear of making mistakes, move beyond your fear. Make mistakes and be ready to take the taste of the progress of your life.